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The Expat Series.

Expat Series: Boxing Up My Life. Is It Worth It?

5/19/2018

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By Deb Zulawski

Blogger, artist, photographer, global traveler and soon to be expat currently living in the Pacific Northwest

I have been following several social media groups focused on expats living in different countries and have seen discussions by people who have moved to Belize, Costa Rica, Panama, Ecuador and other countries around the world. On every thread the same topic comes up - How do I ship my furniture to (insert country)? While there is no right or wrong way for someone to approach creating a new life in a new country, I must admit it made me curious as to the reasons people do or do not ship all their belongings.

I have decided that I am not going to take my household furnishing with me. Well, maybe my Blendtec blender, but that's it. And, of course, clothes, camera, and my laptop. The rest I will be able to get there. With a lower cost of living in my new country I will be able to purchase many of the items I get rid of for a fraction of what I would pay to ship a container of furniture, appliances and knick knacks. I have read that someone spent upwards of $5000 to ship a household from the US to Ecuador. Top that off with in-country shipping costs and all the coordination fees involved, and that is a lot of money that could be used to set up a household in the new location.

I have spent considerable time thinking about why someone would pay to ship all their household goods. It is curious to me. No judgement.  Just curious.
As I said, I don’t plan on bringing my household furnishings with me and these are some of the reasons that helped me come to that decision.

Expense and flexibility

The expense of shipping compared to the cost of buying new upon arrival in my estimation would be great.  I plan on renting a furnished apartment or home until I determine the city or neighborhood where I would like to settle. This allows me the flexibility to move without having to move an entire household as well. Less cost and more flexibility. I can set up a household later, if and when I settle into one location. Save all the money from not shipping a household and ... shopping! You can buy what you need in the new location.

Forever isn’t always forever

Most expats intentions are to create a forever retirement life in a foreign country. The reality is that a good percentage of expats return to their home country after a few of years, because they can't adjust, are unable to learn the language, don't feel at home, have health issues, or because they miss family, kids, grandkids, and even their favorite foods.  Oh, that darn red licorice and barbeque sauce...destroyers of dreams! 

Even with the best of intentions "to live in the new country forever" things can change, for whatever reason. The cost to ship a container and the stress of learning about the laws and regulations of the destination country can be a stressful endeavor. Then if one ends up being one of that small percent of expats that returns to their country of origin, then the loss is much less having purchased furniture and appliances there, with no need to sell expensive shipped items at pennies on the dollar, returning home only to have to buy new furniture and household goods all over again.

There’s something unique to be experienced when living like a local

Experiencing the culture and integrating with the local people of the country that I have chosen as my new home is much of the reason for moving to a foreign country. 

When I lived in the Peruvian Amazon city of Iquitos, I bought a home just outside of town.  It wasn't much by standards that I was used to, but it was higher end than many other residences in the joven community where I was going to plant my roots. 

I already stood out as an outsider being a middle-aged gringo with, at that time, salt & pepper hair. I had made many local friends by the time I purchased my small cinder block home and was very aware of what it would feel like to invite those friends over for an evening, if I furnished my place by American standards. 

I could have done that, but what would have been the result and what would have been the purpose.  I chose instead to buy comfortable, traditional furnishings that middle class families in that region would have owned. I kept it simple. The result that I observed was that local friends were comfortable when visiting my home and I was comfortable having them there.

The conclusion was simple...for me
Things are just that...things.
The conclusion, for me, was that it didn't make sense to go through the process and cost of shipping my household goods. Over time, I have come to the realization that things are just things. I think that realization will help make the process of letting go, discarding and donating my stuff a lot easier. And, for me, there is something incredibly freeing not being constrained by stuff.

I wonder if those who return to their home country, for reasons other than health issues, are mostly those who shipped their belongings to their expat country. It is a curious question for me to ponder. Was it a sense of bringing a bit of their home country with them and then over time finding that their belongings weren't what they really missed?  Maybe those belongings were instead a symbol of the culture, family, friends...the life they left behind? Or, well, maybe they just really loved their comfortable chair.

Have you moved to another country?  Did you ship your furniture and belongings?  Would you do it differently next time?  On the other side, why did you decide not to ship your belongings?

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Javier Chung
5/20/2018 06:09:42 am

I wonder if you still living in the outskirt of Iquitos, Peru. What made you move there? If you left, why? - just curious. I left my home town, Iquitos, 36 years ago.

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11/16/2018 08:14:17 am

I am also an expat, I have experienced shipping my things 5 times in just 2 years before I finally went back to my home country. Maybe one of the reasons that some can't let go of their things are the sentimental value attached to it. It's the only reason I see that may cause it. Me, If I know that I can buy it to the place that I will be transferring, I won't bother to carry the old things with me, except for my clothes. When I finally decided to return home, I left all my things to my friend.

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Angie Kettel
5/20/2018 06:33:15 am

We retired just over a year ago from the US. We had been talking, planning and traveling to other countries for years in search of our ideal retirement home. We landed on and eventually in Panamá. After years of planning, researching, pondering and praying we decided, like you indicated, that stuff is just stuff.

We spent a few years gradually weeding through nearly 40 years of marriage, babies and grand babies....with lots of trinkets and memorabilia from travel. At the end we kept a very little and gifted (or sold very cheaply) 98% of our “stuff.” We then sold our 4500 sq ft home and headed south with 6 suitcases of mostly clothes, camera equipment and electronics (to keep us connected to our family and friends...old and new).

Without being encumbered with stuff, we’ve made 3 short distance moves around the Pedasí area trying out different homes and locations. It’s an interesting and enlightening adventure!

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JRN
5/20/2018 07:39:59 am

We moved to Ecuador 4 years ago with 8 pieces of luggage for 2 people. It was worth the extra luggage, however, we never considered moving all of our belongs or storing them in the US, just in case. For us, it was a good decision. We did not own expensive furniture, planned on finding a furnished apartment (we did), passed along any family treasures and brought those things recommended by other expats and a few things that would make us feel at home.

We know many who did store things - some still paying for storage 4-5 years later even though with no definite plans to return. Some doing so because they had a 3-5 year plan to go back. For them it has been worth it.

A number of friends shipped via container - costing them close to $10,000. And for them, it was a good decision. They re-created their home here, and are happy. We've also had friends leave that did the reverse trip with a container. They could afford to, and it was worth it for them.

We bought our furnished condo a year after arriving. One of my first thoughts was "We own stuff, again!" LOL. We haven't added much to it and who knows...maybe we'll be selling it at some point and moving on in suitcases.

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Michelle
7/14/2019 05:59:26 pm

I moved from Canada to Chile to be with my partner who was Chilean. I sent some of my stuff there- it gave me a sense of comfort and s piece of home. Even after that relationship dissolved, I stayed and got my permanent residency. Some of the stuff I sent I treasure but things really are just things. Nice article.

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